As a child, you were often asked the question “what do you want to be when you grow up?” the child you once where would say the professions that excited you the most at that time of age, you could have said a police man, a fireman, a doctor, a cowboy or the man on the moon but as you grow older you begin to realize the effects of your surrounds, your education, peers, co-workers, employers and your parents.
As you age, your chance at those dreams begin to shrink and shrink until it’s nothing more than a distant fond memory that you day-dream about to escape the harsh reality of the current path you are on. Very few people are fortunate enough to achieve their life goals and dreams and are proud with their accomplishments.. Unfortunately for the majority of us we have fallen into a comfortable slump, a place where we are neither disappointed or overly excited with our choices and sometimes we sink further into that slump and forget about our past goals and dreams just because we are comfortable.
Making excuses for our life choices is a great game we all play, we tell ourselves each and every day that it could be worse, we could be homeless, unemployed, starving, suffering from a disease and most of the time we are correct, it could be worse ..but what if we started saying to ourselves each day while we drank our cup of coffee that it could be better. “this coffee could be better”, “this food could be better”, “my job and pay could be better”, “my health could be better”, “my happiness could be better”. “my life could be better” and that’s the key phrase “my life could be better” and why shouldn’t it.Lets stop making excuses and start making promises to ourselves. you could start with a very small promise that is easily fulfilled and achievable or it could be a huge terrifying promise that could shake things up and bring a positive change to your life.
I sat down the other night and decided I’m done with just having the bare minimum, I’m done with making less money then i should be making, providing less for my family then I should be providing. I should be looking forward to my future and being progressive with what i want to do with my life.
I’m not going to lie I am scared and terrified of changing and putting myself out there and being vulnerable and possibly not succeeding of becoming a writer but not as scared as I am with not doing anything with the life I was given, not at least taking this year and devoting it to a passion that might open new roads and a greater well-being.
I will make an effort each and every day to achieve the dream of being a professional writer and update my post often with any progress that I achieve and I encourage all my readers to do the same, go out in that big blue world and leave a footprint that your proud of.
So in short of it all, the big picture here is to jump back into whatever your passionate about, What gets you excited?What do you want to achieve with your life? What do you want to be when you grow up?
Because we never really stop growing up. With each minute that pass, we grow older and older and each day is different from the last.
Remember ,let’s turn around the saying “It could be worse” to “It could be better” because that’s what we should all strive for, some pursuit of happiness…something better.
The Modern Typewriter Luke